Let's say your daughter is having difficulty with algebra even though math
has never given her problems
before. Or your son, although he knows the material well, has difficulty
with the state practice tests his 12th grade physics teacher has been
giving over the last few months. The idea of a tutor has crossed your
mind, but you're not really sure if one could benefit your child. How do
you decide if a tutor is right for his or her needs?
"I would say that if your child's grades begin to rapidly decline, if
they are showing a lack of interest in a particular subject or if they
having difficulty where they never had it before, it might be time to
look for a tutor," says teacher and tutor Jennifer Warren, who has been
tutoring students in English and SAT preparation in upstate New York for
the past 10 years. "Also, if their class is large or if they have a
not-so-great relationship with the teacher, a tutor might be very
helpful."
Warren says that from what she has seen with her students, the need for a
tutor may have less to do with the child's ability to do
the work than with the motivation level to learn the subject.
"A lot of times it comes down to a motivational issue," she says. "It's not
like the
children are inept. They just need a push to get them motivated to do
the work."
Assessing Your Child's Needs
Although many parents start looking for a tutor at their child's school,
high school history/global studies teacher Lisa Korpics, who also tutors
students near her Poughkeepsie, New York home, says that there are other
places to look.
"Some big franchises -- like Sylvan or Huntington Learning -- offer
tutoring in small groups instead of one-to-one," Korpics says. "This works
well with some students because it is very structured." She adds that
sometimes, the center's tutors are uncertified teachers or teachers
certified only in elementary education.
"This is not to say that they are not qualified; it's just that when you
need specific tutoring for something like physics or chemistry or a
specific test like the New York State Regents exam in global history,
you need someone who really knows their subject backwards and forwards
and is familiar with the state exams," Korpics says, adding that many
of the students who fail standardized exams do so because they
misunderstand the directions or analyze the questions too much.
"Learning centers seem to work better for elementary and early middle-level
students," Korpics says. "I think high school students do better with
specific
subjects in very small groups with two or three kids. Best is one-on-one, I
think."
Lisa also cautions that, because learning centers often provide a
curriculum for students, it can sometimes be a disadvantage if the child
views it as extra work they have to do in addition to their regular
class assignments. "They may become frustrated and overwhelmed," she
says.
A Good Fit
Both Warren and Korpics say that the relationship the student develops
with the tutor can determine how successful the tutoring sessions will
be.
"Having a good relationship with the tutor can really turn the student
around," Warren says. "If they look forward to the time with the tutor and
get the one-on-one attention they need, it can make an enormous
difference in their academic performance."
She recalls a student who, angry about doing additional work with the
tutor, actually sneaked out of a session when she left the room to get a
pad of paper.
"I got in the car and drove down the road to see this super-cool
seventh-grader be-bopping down [the street]," she says. "I pulled over
and asked him where he was going and he said 'Umm...McDonald's?'"
Warren says she has had students complete assignments and
work hard with their studies simply because they liked her and enjoyed
the time she spent with them. And, although she says she hasn't yet had
any situations where there wasn't a good rapport, she says the student
will know if the relationship is an effective one within the first few
sessions.
"A lot of it is individual rapport with the tutor," she says. "If they
click, the student may well soar. It could really be just that simple."
Both suggest that parents schedule the first several meetings either in
their homes or in a neutral meeting place such as a library. They should
also stick around so they can observe how the tutor interacts with
their child.
"If the child feels even the slightest bit uncomfortable with the tutor,
they should go with their instinct," Korpics says. "Check them out just to
be sure."
Face to Face vs. Online
Like almost everything else, tutoring has stepped into the 21st century.
There are a host of online tutors that claim to be able to help your
child with study habits or do better in a particular subject area.
"Online works well in conjunction with face-to-face tutoring," Korpics
says. "It is really effective when working on research papers because
the student can paste the rough draft to your email or immediate message
and you can add comments right there." She says she uses her Web site
for both her classroom and for tutoring students who need help with certain
lessons.
"Kids love it," she says. "I think there is a great future in it."
Like any other tutor, Warren suggests that you check the credentials
of any online service and make sure they are helping your child learn,
not just giving him or her the answers.
Knowing where to Look
Although many parents start the search in their child's school,
Warren says that's not the only place to find a good tutor.
"Talk to other parents who've had tutors and see who they would
recommend," she says. "There are lots of good tutors out there who
haven't yet gotten their certification and aren't on the school's lists
as a result. Many good referrals come through word of mouth."
"Sometimes an advanced high school student can actually help a younger
student more [because they may have] better communication or similar
interests," Korpics adds. "Some Catholic and private schools have community
service requirements and juniors or seniors can get credit for helping in
the community."
Local colleges with teacher education programs may also be a good place
to try, as many college students need to get actual teaching experience
under their belt. "They are usually young and enthusiastic," says Korpics.
"They also usually know the current state standards for each subject and
grade."
The Bottom Line
The current rate for one-on-one tutors ranges anywhere from $20 to $50
an hour. Science and math tutors, who are usually in higher demand, may
even charge a bit more. Tutors who come to your home may also factor in
the cost of travel when determining their fees.
"Also, if a tutor is tutoring in their certification area, they
sometimes charge more," Warren says.
If, after sitting down with your child and honestly assessing strong and
weak points in a particular subject, you feel the need to
start looking for a tutor, you could be helping your child in ways that
go beyond getting an "A" or passing the course.
"A lot of times, kids don't realize their individual potential,"
Warren says. "Part of the tutor's job is to help uncover the child's
learning style. The tutor can help discover who the student is as a
learner."
And if you can afford it, isn't that worth a few extra dollars a month?