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Expert Q&A
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| By Chris Crutcher Author, Licensed Child and Family Therapist | ||
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How can I get my 14-year-old to get his hair cut? He refuses to.
Hate to say this, but it's his hair. I can almost guarantee you that if you make it a big deal, you have almost no chance of getting the job done without forcing it, and I will also guarantee you that forcing it is a bad idea, because it costs you in terms of relationship. Like I said, it's his hair. One question you might ask is, how could he get you to grow yours?"
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